Saturday, May 28, 2005

***what hurts...***

:: letting go of a person u've just learned to love
:: reminiscing the good times u shared together
:: shielding ur heart to love somebody
:: trying to hide what u really feel
:: trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from ur eyes
:: loving a person too much
:: giving up someone u never thought of giving up
:: having the right love at the wrong time
:: taking the risk to fall in love again
:: hiding ur relationship from someone else
:: controlling ur feelings to avoid hurting a friend
:: thinking of him every waking and sleeping
moment knowing all the while that he never even thinks a
single thought of you...
:: letting go, because everytime you see the
person, you only fall deeper
:: holding back only to find out when it's too late,
you both felt the same way, but were only scared
to lose each other so much that you didn't let the
feelings out
:: falling inlove with someone you didnt mean to fall
inlove with
:: finding the perfect guy...with only one
prob....he doesnt love you...
:: helping the one you love court your friend
:: seeing the one you love crying for someone else
:: the waiting also hurts like hell
:: having to hear "... I've met someone"
:: agreeing to his wish to 'just be friends'.
:: asking his freedom back bcoz 'he'd be happier
with her'
:: asking u to 'forget that everything happened'and
be 'normal' friends again.
:: hearing that u're treated as a sis (ouch!)
:: sharing his future plans for the girl with you.

:: u stopped being friends bcoz his gf asked him to.
:: being denied in front of people.
:: telling u lies where he'd been when actually,
he was with a 'new friend' or an 'old flame'(whew!)
:: he told u he'd be leaving u to return to his
ex (d one he left 4 u!)
:: breaking someone's heart
:: fighting for that one thing that would make you happy
:: that is, holding on to a person who can
not guarantee you his commitment unless he fix
himself...then, you are left hanging for the
moment...then he says, time will tell... but
you still decided to hope in him and trust him
:: PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're dying...
:: PRETENDING to be strong.... and RECOGNIZING
your weakness
:: lying in bed each night, thinking of that special
person you can never have...

:: being with someone you can't actually love...
:: pretending you don't love a person whom you
actually love...
:: being in love...
:: letting go even if you really don't want to...
having no right to say you are hurting because it
was your decision
:: seeing the person you love hurt because of
you...and not being able to help that person...
:: having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to
the person you love and finding out afterwards
that things will never be the same again when he/she
doesnt treat you with the same closeness as before
:: having to face the fact that someone is capable
of completely destroying the wall that you have set
for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
:: admitting that you love someone despite his
imperfections
:: finding out that the more you try to hate him,
the more you end up loving him, perhaps even
more than before
:: realizing how stupid your mistakes were that
led to your break-up.
:: the thought that this guy, used to really love you
and you loved him as well but you didn't give
enough and he gave up on you
:: Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY
else..."
:: making a promise....and realizing that
when the time has come for that promise to be
delivered....the commitment is no longer there...
:: the hardest thing about love - believing it
exists.

After you've been hurt...
...learn to forgive
...learn to trust and love again

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